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| ~Just Imagine~ | Posted: Sun Nov 5 08:17:02 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
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What is the worst thing you ever did to hurt someone emotionally ?
And did you do it with intent, or didn't you realise it at the time ? |
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| Mark | Posted: Sun Nov 5 09:53:03 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
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Tormenting someone that was (and I must admit, still is) very special to me, namely my ex-gf. I acted out of jealousy. Can’t say I did it with intent, but can’t say I didn’t realized it either. I just couldn’t act in a different way. (This is what led to our brake up. I saw my flaws in the end and tried to correct them. It was too late to save the relationship… still busy with correcting the flaws. I’m not there yet, but I’ve come a long way since. Anyway, I’m drifting away from the subject). |
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| faithamicka | Posted: Sun Nov 5 16:07:04 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
| ~Just Imagine~ said:
>What is the worst thing you ever did to hurt someone emotionally ? >And did you do it with intent, or didn't you realise it at the time ? hi j.i.. i'm new here so i'm trying to test the waters and see how this works.. worst thing i ever did was break up with someone i've been with for almost 2 yrs...(i know..it happens everyday, so what..) we just drifted away and i realized taht our relationship was just built on comfort and need and not based on love. i broke up with him almost a week after he planned on proposing to me. i didn't know it then but i finally found out. his whole plan, and i even saw the ring. at that point, and till now, i still think it was the best way, we needed to part and search for ourselves in this world.. i know i broke his heart and hurt him really bad, but it wasn't intentional. maybe, and hopefully, a few years from now he would thank me for it. i should put up a lighter response or something not too melodramatic but that's the first thing taht came into my mind as soon as i read your question.. |
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| libra | Posted: Sun Nov 5 17:16:50 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
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what I did to my boyfriend before we were dating...but I didn't realize how much I was hurting him.
p.s. welcome faithamicka... |
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| Christophe | Posted: Sun Nov 5 18:18:06 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
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Everybody hates a tease |
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| Kira | Posted: Sun Nov 5 20:32:10 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
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A friend of mine confided in me about a serious and very frightening problem. This secret on top of him being extremely depressed made me so worried and unhappy that I eventually slipped and said a bit too much to someone in my own family.
I think he forgave me, but it had been such a leap for him to trust me in the first place, and he never forgot it. Eventually we stopped talking and lost touch. |
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| Cherry_Moon | Posted: Mon Nov 6 20:47:07 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
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I've cut a couple time and I struggle with depression and BPD since I've been with Puck which I know has to be hard on him. |
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| choke | Posted: Mon Nov 6 21:39:28 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
| I told someone he wasn't a good person and we couldn't be friends anymore.
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| Wisenheimer | Posted: Tue Nov 7 21:08:27 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
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Someone said they wanted to die, and I told them to go ahead and kill themselves, that I hated them, that no one loved them and no one would miss them. They'd just be doing everyone else a favour if the were dead.
Boy am I glad they didn't. I didn't mean it at all. |
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| Wisenheimer | Posted: Fri Nov 10 20:57:45 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
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Oh wait, I forgot about the time I strangled a stray dog when I was about 11.
To be fair, he was old and sick and miserable, and I just wanted to be merciful. Still though.....I did basically murder the poor guy. I still feel horrible about that. Also, I did kinda-sorta hit a vagrant with the claw end of a hammer when I was 15 and gave him some severe lacerations and contusions to the chest, arms, and head. He was a heroin junkie who molested a little girl that lived next door that I was very fond of, so even though it was entirely wrong, I didn't and still don't feel bad about it. I was picked up by the police but charges were not filed. I guess they sympathized with my motive. Other bad things I've done will go unmentioned. |
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| Wisenheimer | Posted: Sat Nov 11 13:43:49 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
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haha that last post was all fibs. |
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| Ahriman | Posted: Mon Nov 13 00:45:50 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
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I'm not going to say the worst but I will mention a few bad things.
I once spiked a fellow hockey players water bottle with a laxative. He didn't make it out of his pads in time. Throwing rotten apples at cars on the highway. One wasn't rotten so it didn't explode on the car. It went through the windshield. We ran... Broke my cousin's arm in two places because he wouldn't get out of my seat...the same day my grandpa died. Trapped a bunch of teenagers in a corner at the haunted house I was working at (I was playing leatherface with a reaaaal chainsaw) and kept them screaming and crying for 10 minutes whilst I kicked, banged, yelled and revved. Same haunted house, kept a group going in circles in a maze of mirrors, fog, and strobe lights for 2 hours because I didn't like them. The girl eventually broke down crying and started to hyperventilate. Stuck habanero pepper seeds/insides into a muffin and gave it to a dumkopf in my culinary class. Ooooh it made me happy to see him cry. ...your momma |
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| Puck | Posted: Sat Dec 9 01:04:16 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
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how can anyone (pay to) go into a haunted house and take it seriously? |
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| choke | Posted: Sat Dec 9 14:22:03 2006 | Post | Quote in Reply |
| Puck said:
>how can anyone (pay to) go into a haunted house and take it seriously? I self-defence elbowed a mechanical head in a ghost train once |
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| mat_j | Posted: Mon Feb 19 16:05:05 2007 | Post | Quote in Reply |
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Bet L Ron Hubbard five bucks he couldn't start his own religion |
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| libra | Posted: Mon Feb 19 19:28:22 2007 | Post | Quote in Reply |
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mat_j said:
>Bet L Ron Hubbard five bucks he couldn't start his own religion : ) |
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